Dance Competition Audience Etiquette: How to Be the Best Supporter Without Disrupting the Show

Let's be honest—there's nothing like watching your dancer hit the stage. The lights dim, the music begins, and your heart skips a beat. It's magic! But you know what can ruin that moment faster than a missed step? A phone ringing during a lyrical solo, someone chatting behind you during a group routine, or—oh no—a loud "WOO!" right in the middle of a quiet dance.

We’ve all been there—trying to make the most of a competition day while dealing with distractions in the audience. If you're thinking, “Finally, someone is talking about this!” you’re in the right spot.

Let’s dive into the dance competition audience etiquette every mom should know to make the experience smoother and more enjoyable for everyone, especially the dancers. It’s all about those little things that make a big difference.

Tip #1: Phones Off or at Least on Silent

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen a phone ring mid-performance, like a giant alarm clock going off in the middle of a serene solo. Not only is it distracting to the audience, but it can throw off your dancer’s focus.

So, here’s a simple rule: keep your phone on silent (and maybe even put it in your bag so you’re not tempted to scroll through it).

We all know how important it is for our dancers to have a distraction-free space to perform. The less noise or interruptions, the better.

Tip #2: Stay Seated Until the Routine Is Finished

Okay, I know sometimes we all need to dash to the restroom or grab a snack (because competition weekends can feel like marathons), but here’s the thing: when a performance starts, stay seated.

Getting up mid-performance isn’t just distracting to others; it can also break your dancer’s concentration. And really—it’s only a few minutes! (I mean, if you can hold off for a 3-minute solo, you’ve basically earned a gold medal in self-restraint.)

Tip #3: No Photos or Videos in the Auditorium

I get it, you want to capture every precious moment.

But no photos or videos during a routine!

Not only can it distract the dancers, but it can also interfere with their rhythm. Plus,

most competitions have rules about this for privacy and safety reasons. Let your dancer own the spotlight without worrying about cameras flashing in their face.

Tip #4: Cheer for Absolutely Everyone

Look, I know you’re there to cheer for your own dancer, but let’s make it a party!

Cheer for every dancer.

The energy in the room can be contagious, and when everyone is supportive, the vibe is just electric. Plus, our dancers notice when the whole crowd gets behind them. It pushes them to perform with even more passion, knowing they’re part of a bigger team.

Tip #5: Clean Up After Yourself

You know what’s worse than a full day of competition?

Ending it with a pile of trash around you. Help out by cleaning up after yourself. Pick up those water bottles, snack wrappers, and any stray tissues. It takes a second, and when we respect the space we’re in, it sets a good example for our dancers.

Plus, it just makes the day feel more organized—and let's face it, as busy moms, we need all the organization we can get!

Tip #6: Be Kind to Volunteers and Staff

Volunteers and staff are the unsung heroes of dance competitions. They’re the ones making sure everything runs smoothly and answering questions all day long.

So, let’s show them some love!

A simple “thank you” or smile goes a long way. When we treat others with kindness and respect, we’re teaching our dancers how to do the same—and that’s a life lesson they can carry with them forever.

Tip #7: Go Easy on the Seat-Saving

Ah, the eternal battle of the seat-saving. You want to save a seat for your family and friends (I mean, they have to be there to cheer, right?).

But here’s the thing—don’t go overboard. A couple of seats are fine, but if you’ve saved an entire row with blankets and bags for hours, it can get frustrating for other parents who just want to sit and see their kids perform.

Keep it chill—let’s leave those seats open for everyone to enjoy.

Bonus Tip: Be Aware of Your Surroundings

This one’s simple: be mindful of your space.

You know how you can’t see past that super cute but ginormous bow your friend’s daughter is wearing? Well, someone else can’t see past your giant sign or your head.

A little awareness can go a long way—if you’re blocking someone’s view, just shift your position so everyone can enjoy the show!

Perfect Your Dance Competition Audience Etiquette

If you've stuck with me through all these tips, congratulations—you are now officially equipped to be the best audience member and dance mom on the planet! By following these basic guidelines, you’re not just creating a distraction-free, supportive environment for your dancer—you’re setting the stage for a positive experience for everyone in the room.

Don’t forget to share these tips with your family and friends (because, let’s face it, sometimes they need a little reminder too). And if you want to make sure everyone’s on the same page, send them a quick text or email with these dance competition audience etiquette reminders. It’ll make a huge difference for your dancer and everyone around you!

Want to take these tips to the next level?

Check out my YouTube video where I break it all down with some extra insight (and a few laughs). Let’s keep making competition day smoother for everyone—your dancer will definitely thank you for it!