The One Question I Asked Myself Before Saying Yes to Competition Dance

As a mom, watching your child grow and discover their passions is an incredible journey. But there comes a time when you have to ask yourself: "Is my child truly ready for this?"

For me, this question came up when my daughter’s love for dance became undeniable. From the moment she stepped into her first mommy-and-me dance class, I knew there was something special about her connection to dance. She wasn’t just following the moves; it really felt like she was living them. At home, in the backyard, at music festivals—we couldn’t stop her from dancing.

I remember watching her at one of the local festivals in our area, twirling and moving to the music with so much joy, and thinking, She could handle more. She wasn’t just dancing for fun anymore—she wanted to do something bigger. She believed she was capable of more.

So, when the opportunity arose to try out for our competition team, I didn’t hesitate. I asked her, “What do you think about joining the team? You’d have the chance to learn even more, push yourself, and work with some amazing teachers.” Without missing a beat, she lit up and said, “I want to do it, Mom.”

And just like that, we were off on a new journey—one I didn’t fully understand, but I was eager to learn about.

Diving Into the Unknown

I had zero clue what competition dance would entail.

I didn’t fully grasp the level of commitment it required, the time it would take, or the way it would change our schedule and family dynamics. But I knew my daughter was passionate, and that passion was all I needed to take that leap.

What I didn’t realize at the time was that the competition world was so much bigger than what I had imagined. 

There were rules to learn, new vocabulary to understand, and plenty of things I had to figure out quickly—like what to pack for competition weekends, how to keep up with the calendar of rehearsals, and how to navigate the financial side of things. There were moments of uncertainty, but it became clear that this was exactly where she needed to be.

The Passion That Drives It All

When I look back, I see that it wasn’t just about the costumes or the medals. It was about her intense passion for dance, her belief in herself, and her eagerness to learn and grow. It was about watching her evolve, challenge herself, and find her place in this dance world.

So, when you’re wondering if your child is ready for competition dance, I ask you to consider: 

• Do they have that same fire? 

• Are they eager to take on challenges, to push themselves, and to grow in a way that goes beyond the basics? 

If the answer is yes, then maybe, like me, you’ll discover that competition dance is the next big step for both you and your child.

Is Competition Dance Right for Your Family?

I know it can be a lot to think about. But if you’re like me, you’ll want to be sure that you’re making the best decision for your child’s passion and for your family’s commitment. There are so many factors to consider, from time commitments to emotional and financial investments.

That’s why I’m putting together a free webinar to help guide you through the process of deciding if competition dance is the right fit for your family. In the webinar, I’ll share everything I’ve learned through our journey—from the challenges to the rewards—and help you feel confident in your decision-making process.

Click here to fill out the Google form to register for the free webinar and stay tuned for the date—it’s going to be an exciting, informative session that will give you the confidence to make the best decision for your family!